Trust is like the glue that keeps couples together even when they have to face big issues. Without it, couples are more likely to break up in times of crisis; they are incapable of being sincere and they doubt each other. So what are the ways to build the needed trust?
You should never lie to your partner unless you plan to surprise him. Even if they are small. Even if you have never told it before, as soon as your lie is revealed, the person in front of you will start to think what other lies you have told.
Whether they are big or small, be sure to keep your promises. If you are meeting for dinner at eight o’clock, be there. If you promised to buy milk on the way home, remember to buy it. Of course, in more important matters such as loyalty!
Jealousy can take the stage at any time and do what is expected of it, unless limits are decided by sitting and talking in a relationship. If you are too intimate with your co-workers or if you still meet and go out with your ex-girlfriend, you shouldn’t do it if your loved one bothers. Your priority should be the people in your life and their feelings.
Unless your partner gives you a real reason to the contrary, there can be no reason not to trust him. Trust him. Unless you have serious evidence, do not accuse the person of deception or lying. Without proof, you just create an aura of insecurity. Moreover, it makes the other person doubt your honesty. You have to believe what you say to each other.
Don’t try to take the pain of your ex’s mistakes out of him. If you have been with someone who is unfaithful and dishonest before, do not ruin your new relationship for fear that you will experience the same things again. This is a new person and deserves to be given a new chance. He can only be judged for his own actions.
You chose the other person, your heart chose. Your instincts said he was worthy of your love. If you are confident, you know you made the right choice. And this creates a strong foundation for building trust.