4. Do not accept any advice you do not want: Something is ruining relationships. When you ask someone for support about something, the first thing you hear from that person is advice. Well, did you want this? No. What you will do about your job, how you will deal with it, whatever you need support, “Now do it like this!” turns into a recommendation. Nobody realizes that this is destruction rather than doing. A person who wants a shoulder really needs one, to be heard, to be seen, to feel that you are communicating … Unwanted advice is unlikely to achieve any of these. The advice serves to tell you that you are on the wrong path, it doesn’t tell you “I’m here” at all. At this point, the greatest favor you will do to yourself is that you do not heed the advice, do not take it seriously, and do not hinder the field. In fact, remember that those advice is an expression of great egos, and don’t satisfy anyone’s ego. The main thing you are looking for is the support, do not overlook it.